Bukky Maybank.

A compassionate psychotherapist.

An expert in adult ADHD and autism.

Your partner in creating lasting change.

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HOW CAN I HELP YOU?


Welcome, I'm Bukky. I'm a highly-trained psychotherapist based in Kingston upon Thames and online. If you're feeling stressed, anxious, or depressed, you feel different because of your culture, sexuality or disability, and you're dealing with ADHD or autism—whether diagnosed or self-identified, I can help. 


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CLIENTS SAY



"Your support and gentle guidance has had such a remarkable impact on me and will stay with me forever"

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"I have learnt so much and truly admire how effortlessly you were able to be everything I needed and more. I felt heard and seen. Thank you. I will miss our sessions and I will miss you dearly"

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"Words aren't enough to express the positive impact these sessions have had on my life"

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"You have been the most patient, kind, gentle soul I've encountered in a long time" 

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PSYCHOTHERAPY SERVICES

Navigate life’s hardest moments with expert support.

When you searched for a therapist today and found yourself here, it could be because you’re in clear crisis.  I can help guide you through this difficult time. Whether it’s career shifts, grief, or identity questions, I’m here to help you rediscover joy. 


I bring expertise in:

Relationship Issues

  • Relationship issues & break-ups
  • Dating blocks & confidence
  • Emotional intelligence
  • Spirituality
  • Parents
  • Family
  • Friendships
  • Anger management
  • Cultural issues
  • Boundaries & people-pleasing
  • Adoption

Anxiety and Depression

  • Anxiety 
  • Depression
  • Isolation
  • Loneliness
  • Alienation 
  • Emptiness 
  • Limiting beliefs
  • Addictions & bad habits
  • Identity problems
  • Self-esteem & confidence

Truama and PTSD

  • Trauma
  • Shame
  • Physical abuse
  • Bullying
  • Stress
  • Post-traumatic stress
  • Race and Ethnicity
  • Gender and Sexuality
  • Class
  • Religion
  • Miscarriage
  • Fertility

Career and Life Transitions

  • Mid-life crisis
  • Employment difficulties
  • Personal goals
  • Resilience and stress management
  • Work-life balance & well-being
  • Entrepreneurship
  • Meaning
  • Faith
  • Workplace Counselling
  • Equality/ Discrimination Issues
  • Life purpose & career direction
  • Procrastination & perfectionism

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WHY BUKKY

Caring. Curious. Challenging.

My journey began as a corporate lawyer, but my passion for understanding human experiences led me to retrain as a therapist. I bring a unique combination of analytical skills and deep empathy to my practice. I understand the complexities of life and provide personalised, compassionate care to help my clients heal and grow

 





              



MY CLIENTS CHOOSE ME BECAUSE:

I am a registered professional. 

✓ Fully insured

✓ Registered and holds membership with the British Association for Counsellors and Psychotherapists (BACP) and abides by its code of ethics (accredited registration number 403730)

✓ Receiving regular supervision

✓ Has years of experience working in places like the Priory Hospital and NHS counselling services, and runs her own therapy practice for individuals and groups

✓ Has lots of experience mentoring and volunteering with vulnerable communities

I am knowledgeable and highly-trained.

✓ Highly trained in the latest mental health practices

✓ Has a Level 7 Advanced Diploma in Psychotherapy and Counselling from Regent’s University 

✓ Actively continues to expand her knowledge of the latest mental health techniques and currently completing a master's degree in Psychotherapy and Counselling at Regent's University London (accredited, postgraduate-level) 

✓ Specialises in common mental health problems (Depression, GAD, Social Anxiety, OCD, Panic, Phobias, PTSD, Health Anxiety) as well as uncommon areas such as Bereavement (particularly by Suicide) as well as less common areas like bereavement and intuition

✓ Adopts an integrated therapeutic approach that relies on neuroscience, attachment theory, and neuro-linguistic programming, whilst also drawing wisdom from spirituality, existential analysis and philosophy

I create a safe, nurturing space for exploration and healing.

✓ Believes in openness, honesty, trust and humour

✓ Has a flexible and open-minded approach

✓ Thinks it's important to embrace each others 'madness' and explore our differences

✓ Believes in the incredible powers of therapy to repair souls, expand minds, and lead to important insights
Has an approach is grounded in the belief that healing comes from within, and that each person has the capacity to grow, change, and thrive

Acknowledges that distress and suffering are an understandable response to a traumatising world and offers you a non-judgmental, safe space to talk, scream, shout, swear, break down, rebuild yourself or simply just be

I have experience supporting diverse identities and backgrounds.

✓ Was a commercial lawyer for over a decade before becoming a therapist and understands the unique challenges to your mental health that come with a demanding career

✓ Worked within high-pressured, hyper-competitive environments, first for a Magic Circle law firm, and then for many years as a General Counsel in tech and brand giants

✓ Has worked with people from diverse backgrounds and communities (including with BAME clients, the racialised and the marginalised)

I actively engage in your therapeutic journey.

I recognise life as cycles of repetition and practice. And believe importantly that, what we practice, grows. I am not a passive therapist in your journey of self-discovery.

I am here to provide gentle accountability throughout your therapy and to actively support you to live a more enriching life filled with daily practices of embodiment, noticing, compassion, art, rest, play, radical acceptance, letting go, laughter, honesty, and much more.

I use evidence-based techniques.

✓ I understand the demands of modern life and offer innovative techniques from some of the most recent, data-led therapeutic models (such as attachment theory, cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT), and mindfulness-based approaches) in order to help you navigate life's complexities and achieve lasting positive change.

I blend art and science to deliver you optimal results.

I blend art and science in a unique and integrated approach to deliver you optimal results. I combine the latest evidence-based techniques, with wisdom from age-old Eastern philosophy, Jungian psychology and existential analysis. I also continue to seek learning outside of what is institutionalised and deemed legitimate by academia, to ensure I offer you a complete experience on a physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual level.

   


KEY RESULTS

Because your wellbeing matters.

The world is changing, and people need a safe place to talk about their lives without judgment. Therapy is that place. It offers a warm welcoming therapeutic experience and an intuitive practitioner who will walk alongside you to help you redefine your place in the world. 

Other results clients report:

  Access to practical support.

I can support you with simple and effective therapeutic techniques — practical exercises selected to help you gain clarity, calm and confidence, and take your growth out of the theoretical world and into real life.

  Discover new possibilities.

Get the expert help and gentle accountability you need to let go of behaviours that do not serve you, better understand your individual needs and cultivate new ways of being.

  Gain career insights. 

My uniquely intuitive and holistic package of support is designed to help you feel calmer, more confident, and 'good enough' in your role at work and at home. 

  Thrive in your relationships.

I invite you to see how you fit with others in your world, own who you are in these dynamics and take agency of your life and your relationships. I can support you in gaining understanding and finding meaning in your experiences with others.

  Discover therapy tailored, to your needs.

Whether you're new to therapy or you've been before, I aim to meet you where you are. I believe there is no single path in your therapy, and encourage your uniquely personal and non-linear growth to emerge.

  Explore your traumas and histories of oppression.

I recognise the structures and conditions that induce distress and suffering in this world, and so am particularly interested in supporting you to take up space and find your voice, where you are a racialised and/or marginalised person. 

  Tackle imposter syndrome.

I have worked with women, in particular, as they transition into senior roles and have supported them to overcome the unconscious internal conflicts which impede their progress, come into their own peace and feel easier with their professional success and visibility. 

  Get free from high-functioning anxiety.

I work with high-achieving people, helping them break free from high-functioning anxiety, overwhelm and self-doubt. 

  Experience judgment-free therapy.

I invite you to bring your most authentic self to be seen and heard without judgement. 

  Feel good enough.

I can support you with rest, mindfulness, feeling emotionally attuned, and developing a more loving self-dialogue.

  Explore vulnerability.

My aim is to support you in developing the lost art of imperfection and nurture your softness and vulnerability. 

  Find a safe space.

I offer a safe space to look inward, to think more deeply, and to deal with all the complex emotions that come with existing.

  Maximise potential.

Counselling and therapy is not only for those with serious mental health problems. They are powerfully effective and impactful ways to maximise personal potential and to develop and maintain a healthy emotional life in an increasingly stressful world of personal and professional pressures. 

  Unleash creativity.

I am committed to supporting you to resolve any issues of stifled creativity, over-critical self-image, and spiralling work/life balance. 

  Find direction, a plan, a way forward.

The thought-provoking exercises aim to leave you stepping readily into your own sense of direction, connection and belonging in the world.

  Be 'happier'.

I help you find your own peace, be less worried, and better adjusted.

  Get unstuck.

I create curious, explorative spaces, so you can get unstuck, dream big, delve deep and embrace who you truly are. 

  Find balance.

I work with clients in high-pressurised careers to consider the powerful impact that their career choices and self-imposed expectations, have on every aspect of their lives, happiness and general well-being. 

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FAQ's

What is psychotherapy?

Therapy helps you feel better about your memories and experiences.

Counselling and Psychotherapy provide a pathway toward understanding your experiences and finding strategies that work uniquely for you. Therapy doesn't erase memories or experiences, but it can help you feel better about them. It's a way to feel calmer and understand things better. It's a process that, for many, leads to a greater sense of peace, understanding, and resolution.  Sometimes, just talking about your thoughts can make you feel lighter. For deeper issues or long-lasting impacts, therapy can help you unravel patterns, understand their roots, and pave the way for new, healthier ways of living.

How much does therapy cost?

Fantastically powerful. Surprisingly Affordable.

It's £75 per session, if you choose to do in-person therapy from locations in KT2, Kingston upon Thames, or work online. 

It's £100  per session, for couples and family therapy.

How long does therapy typically last?

Therapy doesn't have a set time. Most people have 8-12 sessions, but we'll figure out what's best for you. 

Therapy's like a good book—it's different for everyone! We usually meet for 50 minutes every week. Some people feel better after a few sessions, while others need therapy for a year or more. You can end therapy whenever you feel ready. It's up to you! 

Typically, I recommend an initial block of 6 weekly sessions. Then you can decide if you need more. However, you're always in charge of your therapy, and I aim to take your lead on what you want.

What happens in the first session?

We'll introduce ourselves to each other.

The first session is mostly about getting to know each other better. I ask you questions, discovers what you need, and tell you more about how I aim to help people. We'll figure out together how to make our sessions helpful for you.

It's also important for you to feel comfortable with me. Studies show that feeling a strong connection with your therapist leads to more positive outcomes for you. This first session lets you see if you feel a connection.

How does Bukky help you?

I use different ways to help you and make my techniques fit your needs.

I work integratively, which means I blend different techniques, including principally Existential Therapy, but also Person Centred Therapy, Gestalt Therapy, Transactional Analysis, and other tailored methods to cater to your individual needs. It's about finding what resonates best with you and crafting a supportive approach that suits your journey towards healing.

I am a Member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy and adhere to their Ethical Framework. I hold professional liability insurance for her work.

I have a wide range of experience with clients from a variety of backgrounds, having worked within the NHS as a Psychotherapist and in several private clinics, including The Priory Hospital Roehampton. I currently offer private therapy in person at centres in Kingston.

Please feel free to phone or email me with any questions you may have.  I can offer a 20 minute telephone call to see how you might work together.

Does therapy work?

Yes, counselling and psychotherapy are types of talk therapy that are evidence-based.

Counselling and Psychotherapy can be incredibly effective for many people. The goal is to create a safe, supportive space where you can explore your thoughts and emotions. All of the approaches I incorporate in my therapy practice are evidence-based and are endorsed by the NHS NICE guidelines for clinical excellence.

How do I get started?

Simply get in touch.

To set up your first appointment, contact me. You can say hi on Whatsapp or email me at BukkyMaybank@gmail.com

Let me know your preferred time and day for an initial session, and I can give you a call to confirm. 

Your first appointment comes with no obligation to continue working with me. During this session, you can tell me what you're struggling with, and I can talk to you about how to help. After that, it's up to you if you want more sessions.

How can I reach you for more information?

Still not sure? Just want to chat? 

Say hello on Whatsapp or email BukkyMaybank@gmail.com with a brief outline of why you are seeking therapy, and your availability for an initial session. You can also call +44 (0) 7803 368023 to arrange your free 📞 20-minute consultation with me.

Lots to Learn. Nothing to lose.

PRICE: 100% FREE